Ooops!

I'm a little late but,

Happy Birthday, Dad! 

:)

5 ways to not let go of someone (after a breakup)

1. Stalk that someone on all the social networks available, be it on their blogs, Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr etc. Better yet, make that person's Facebook profile your homepage. Now you see that person's face each time you open your browser. Isn't that just great.

2. Do not store away all the memorable stuffs, things both of you used to share, continue using/having them as if nothing's happened. Do not take off that ring he/she gave you, wear his/her favourite shirt on you whenever you can. Keep that sweet picture of both of you on your dresser, it belongs there, forever!

3. Tell yourself that he/she is just gone for a while and will be back when they realize they still do love you. Brainstorm on the things that you are going to say or do when they come back and imagine yourself being over the moon about it!

4. Convince yourself that you're not better off without them. Live everyday as if the world has ended and your life has turned meaningless. Live as pathetic as you can. Try to get yourself sick or injured to get them to care about you again. 

5. Go to places that both of you used to go, places that held fond memories, and reminiscence. Listen to songs that he/she liked, watch movies that both of you used to enjoy, relive all those happy moments and think about them night and day. Remember all the things that you love about them, remember how happy you've been, remember the anniversaries, and finally, remember, to not let go.

An end, a beginning

HAPPY NEW YEAR! 

I learnt one thing just starting this year - no matter how badly a person treated you, it doesn't make you right when you treat them the same way. And it doesn't make you any better in person either.

Thing is, no matter how many times you can see, hear or read about certain things, you'll never know the real deal unless you experience it for yourself. And so I've told myself to not judge. 

In the end, the best person to learn from, is yourself.

Whoops pardon my endless thoughts. Anyways, wish all of you happiness and that life will become all that you want it to. Best wishes for 2012. Cheers!

I know its hard but, breathe.

When one is in darkness, he or she tends to feel lost and seek guidance from the light. But if one can come to acceptance with the dark, one can gain comfort and flourish, even in complete darkness.

The worst shall come to past, and it can only get better (since its the worst already isn't it). Best things always come, or happen when you least expect them to, so, don't expect and you might find yourself pleasantly surprised. I hope.

Just a glimpse

I love waking up early (occasionally), to enjoy fresh breathe of morning air.

There is a smell to morning air that seems to make me feel refreshed and light. Coolness of the air, and warmth of the sunshine, best coupled with a faint smell of coffee in the air. Mmmmm. The best things in life are mostly free, aren't they? (note the word 'mostly', lol) Sometimes you gotta stop what you're doing for a while and have a moment to appreciate and be thankful for the things around you, you'll find that life is more fulfilling and alleviating that way.

Just want to say, its nice meeting you. :)

What say you?

I found this picture today. A picture I took with my parents after graduation.

Come to think of it, things are not so bad isn't it. I've graduated within the minimum time frame, made some friends along the way, its been one hell of an experience I would say. Three years ago, I came brokenhearted but hopeful, and now I'm brokenhearted, again, but feeling in peace. Its amazing how we can still love from all the little broken pieces, isn't it.

Why dwell on the past when we can't change them anymore? Yes, occasionally we would mourn for what we lost, but life goes on anyway. Its a balance that we need.

I have never looked at life this way before, but now that I think about it, I still have a long stretch of future and life ahead of me. Bright future maybe? I hope. There's many things I want to achieve, but my first goal would be, to have a purpose and be contented. 

Life is a tapestry woven by the decisions we made.

Now, I just need to make the right ones, and hope for the best. Right?